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Friday, March 20, 2009

Dedicated To Frens...

Have u guys ever wondered how we tend to take advantage of the word 'joke' in order to demoralise our frens???

Yes,we may mean it in a joking manner but we will never know if the person actually do feel hurt deep inside...Words like skinny,fat,stupid,ugly etc...Ur fren may laugh along with it,but have we ever thought that the fren was juz concealing his/her true feelings...

And what if the joke is always repeated???Suddenly it no longer seems to be funny anymore isn't it???

We tend to take it easy....As maybe our fren is a patient person...But have we ever thought if he/she is actually keeping everything inside???What if he/she couldn't take it anymore and suddenly explodes??

Who should we blame???Ourselves or them???Ppl will of course say both parties,one for being too much and one for keeping it to themselves???But i'd like to focus on those who like to tease others....Would u like to be tease often???Would u like to be ridiculed and laugh at, in front of so many ppl juz for the sake of a 'joke'???Do u??Or dont u???

The solution for this is actually simple....Not to stop joking,coz life will be boring without it...but juz make sure that before u said something to ur fren,think of how u would feel if ur fren said the same thing to u???Even if u are OK with it..doesnt mean he/she is OK with it...coz different ppl have different personality...

Some ppl juz like to tease or 'demoralise' others in a joking manner so much but when they are in that situation,they suddenly get all defensive and couldnt even accept that joke on their own...Remember,do unto others how u want them to do unto u...If u know that u r going to be one who is sensitive when ppl start making fun of u...den dont do it to others in the first place...If they did that to u den i say that u deserve it...

And so with that...i wanna say im very very sorry to those that ive been 'demoralising' in a joking manner all this while coz i also know that it hurts actually...Its a good thing that i wasnt usually one of the 'target' of such jokes now in NYP...Coz ive been there back then...

To doz who did ever felt hurt by my jokes,pls do tell me about it..so that at least i will not do it again...I know that my words can be very stinging at times...but that is also because some ppl started it first,and when i cant take it,i will give them a medicine of their own...i may be quiet but that doesnt mean i dont know how to shoot back....

So please frens,do joke but do know the limit.Juz rmb,theres always a line in everything...Do not joke until it could affect ur relationship w ur frens...For me,even a small matter like a joke can unite or separate a group of frens...U wouldnt want to be separated juz bcoz of a 'joke' right???Think before u start that joke... :D

...Know Urself(if u r the sensitive one) N Know Ur Limits...

.:WaNiZ:.

posted at 3/20/2009 11:41:00 PM